Monday, February 08, 2010

Sewing nook

Sewing nook, workstation, crafty corner...
Whatever you call it, I realize I need one thats dedicated soley to that.  Multitasking does not work for me when it comes to hobbies. I do not need to feel like I have a task ahead of me...
I'm just starting to sew again.
I bought an adjustable dress form ( which I LOVE so far) and i've realized i'm avoiding sewing because I have to spend so much time clearing off the desk  inorder to cut fabric. the space is disorganized, and multipurpose.
Simplicity and cleanliness.
I need it to be creative.
I get that now.

So the large desk that I was using for writing, sewing, crafting, etc will now be soley dedicated to sewing. Thats why I bought the large desk and the laptop right? why fight it?

I write better when snuggled in bed with a glass of wine or a cup of so.co.cocoa. I apparently need warm toes and bad posture for writing anyway. 

I don't need a desk for office stuff. I'm not nearly that organized and it ends up being a shove all of important papers, makeup, clothes that need altered, and old magazines.

I need a workstation. I place to cut fabric, iron, and stack material by color.  I need a book shelf of sewing books and patterns, and a color cordinated shelf of threads.

check out Apartment Therapy here for pics of others dedicated spaces...
So I'll set that up and get back to you about my new improved space...

Monday, January 18, 2010

California dreamin'... wear some flowers in your hair...



Whoo Hoo!!!
I just bought my tickets for my bachelorette party! We're headed to San Francisco for a crazy night in the Castro, checking out the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art then up to Napa Valley for wine tasting, running a 5k, and getting in as many spa treatments as we can!
I've always always wanted to go to San Francisco, and I am SO excited for this trip!!!


Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Running again is amazing!


I just got done with the best workout I've had in months- no make that the last two years...
3.2 miles - nothing big- I've been running 4 miles regularly. I'm just starting to train for a faster time for my 5k. I've been running 4M and 10 k's this last year. It's not the milage thats got me pumped. It's the speed!

quick background:
I've been dealing with arthritis for the last 2 years and have been miserable. For the first 6 months it hurt to even walk, andthen last year I got back into running- running slowly- and I compleated 6 races.
7 weeks ago I went gluten free after reading about the links between celiac and wheat intolerances and my arthritis and hashimotos. last week I found out I was infact allergic to wheat. I'm still waiting to find out if I have celiac. Since going wheat free my joints hurt so much less- sometimes not at all (!) and thats been a very new thing for me. So running lately has been suprising- I've been running a much more consistant pace and not really hurting afterward (also a new thing for me in the last 2 years!) I feel like my muscles can finally do what they want to without cowering to the pain in my joints...

so today i thought- "hey- I feel good- lets push it and see what I can do."

7.0 miles an hour is what I can do!

I normally run 5-5.5 mph running my run. Today I was running 6-7!!!! for the whole 3.2 miles! and it felt normal and it felt good.

I could not believe it! In fact I'm so in denial that tomorrow I'm going to run it on a different treadmil just to see if the speeds whacky on the one I ran on today!
 Regardless- I ran today, and I ran fast, and I feel amazing!

Sunday, January 10, 2010

its amazing...

Saturday, January 09, 2010

today...



. this world, originally uploaded by di.SUN.ity.

Today I'm having one of those days where I feel caught up in the curiousness of life. I would never have though I would be where I am 10 years ago, and am glad of it. I didn't realize how shortsighted my goals were then, and I'm glad to have superceeded them. Today I wonder what the next ten years will bring, and whether I'll still be satisfied with the expanse of my experience...

Ana Maria in Black Chain Dress

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Thought for the Day


We are what we think.
All that we are arises with our thoughts.
With our thoughts, we make our world.

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Household Tip


Towels not so soft? Before you go buy new ones read this...
Your towel problem is not so much about the quality of your towels, but an issue about water hardness. Whether your towel is old or new, the softness can disappear quick after a few washes due to hard water, excessive detergent and/or fabric softener build-up.

How to solve this in a green way?

Consider giving your towels a wash with a half cup of white vinegar. You can also separately wash them afterward with a half cup of baking soda to remove any odour.
Heres to a great bath (hopefully with a cup of tea or hot cocoa- hey its cold outside!) followed by a clean soft towel... ahhh heaven...

Monday, December 21, 2009

Thought for the day...


"People get into a heavy-duty sin and guilt trip, feeling that if things are going wrong, that means that they did something bad and they are being punished. That's not the idea at all. The idea of karma is that you continually get the teachings that you need to open your heart. To the degree that you didn't understand in the past how to stop protecting your soft spot, how to stop armoring your heart, you're given this gift of teachings in the form of your life, to give you everything you need to open further. "


~Ane Pema Chodron, a Tibetan Buddhist teacher, was born Deirdre Blomfield-Brown. She studied Buddhism in the French Alps and London, where she was ordained. She worked with Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche from 1974 until 1987. She was ordained in the Chinese lineage of Buddhism in 1981 in Hong Kong. Since 1984 she served as the director of Gampo Abbey in Cape Breton, Nova Scotia. She has taught lectured widely and has written several books on meditation practice in the Tibetan Buddhist tradition.

I love it when the Feds to the right thing :)

It's exciting news for non profits across the country who seek to support an entire community as they fight to break the cycle of poverty. Obama has followed through with his campaign promise to fund initiatives to replicate the Harlem Children's Zone in cities across the US.

It's a very exciting time to work at HCZ!

President Obama Signs Bill Funding Promise and Choice Neighborhoods

On December 16, President Obama signed omnibus budget legislation (HR 3288) providing $10 million in funding for Promise Neighborhoods planning grants and $65 million for Choice Neighborhoods.

The Senate passed the bill on December 13 by a vote of 57-35. The House passed it on December 10 by a vote of 221-202. The spotlight now shifts to the Department of Education and HUD.

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

In search of slow

Slow has become quite an interesting movement.

Slow Food is an idea, a way of living and a way of eating. It is a global, grassroots movement with thousands of members around the world that links the pleasure of food with a commitment to community and the environment. Slow Food seeks to catalyze a broad cultural shift away from the destructive effects of an industrial food system and fast life; toward the regenerative cultural, social and economic benefits of a sustainable food system, regional food traditions, the pleasures of the table, and a slower and more harmonious rhythm of life. USA today is quoted as saying "Slow food seeks to be everything that fast food is not."
Slow is also leaking into other areas of our collective subconscience. While trolling the blogosphere I found a connection that hit home with me- slow weddings. My favorite wedding blog is "A Practical Wedding", and when I read this post I realized what was making me so uncomfortable with the thought of being a bride- I'm revolted by what has been called the Wedding Industrial Complex or WIC as its also sometimes called.
I was in Barnes and Noble last night (I had to get some non religious holiday cards which are suprisingly hard to come by even in NYC) and wanted to look at the health magazines when I spotted the wedding magazine section. I paused not knowing if I should actually look at them. I thought I'd probably feel homely, poor, and styleless (oh! if only i could be the girl on page 47! then I'd be living a life worthwhile!) after flipping though them since thats how most womens magazines are made to make the reader feel, but since I've never actually been engaged when I've confronted these, I picked one up just to see how I'd react.
I picked up real simple weddings because I actually usually like the non weddings version of that mag, and was confronted with 50 fluffy white dresses made to hide all of your "figure flaws", proper wedding invitation ettiquette, and tips on how to color coordinate everything, and I'd looked less than 10 pages.
yick.
I don't want to be that bride- I don't want to be that wife, to live that life.
Why are weddings still reaching for the way we never were 1950's ideal?
Very few women I know were married off as young virgins, or were apprentices to martha stewart, and yet brides feel like in order feel like a bride they have to do act like they are.
And now the expectations are worse than ever! just flip through a wedding magazine and tell me you don't feel a little sick inside. People are telling me to expect to spend 10-15 thousand dollars on this and thats with out the rings, transportation, etc...
its stupidity squared.
our goal is to spend less than 5,000 on everything- the rings- the clothes- the food- the flowers- the photography-the plane tickets- EVERYTHING. I've made a budget and I think I can do it for less that 4,000- and thats still for EVERYTHING.
How?
To quote fight club "let that which does not matter slide."
To me that means the fancy venue, the hideous white dress, the invitations to people I don't care about or know or who haven't contacted me in years, the overproduction and overboard color coordination, the strict adherance to tradition, the panic over ettiquette, and the need to meet anyone's expectations by our own.
And the most enjoyable way I can think of to do this is to pursue the slow wedding.
Some great advice from yet another blogger: "There’s so much pressure these days to fit it all in—even in the face of the so called non-traditional wedding—folks are going for every possible potentially meaningful moment and kitschy tradition (and diy detail!) they can think of. It is like having an all-you-can-eat-buffet mentality to planning your wedding. I say: let’s take it easy. Do a few things well. Make your wedding one where you can enjoy good food and the company of good friends and family. After all, that’s why you’re having a wedding with people attending."

Monday, December 07, 2009

Wedding planning vs marriage planning.

Wedding planning vs marriage planning.

wow...why doesn't any one really discuss this?

As we start planning this day about 5 or 6 months or so from now (where it will be, when, who we want there etc) I keep going through these fits of frustration. Everyone seems to have this all backwards. There is an entire crazy wedding culture out there on how this should be done- what makes it "special"- over-coordinated silliness if you ask me (which you did by reading my blog :)) There are huge discussions on the small things... and there are so many stupid small things you can gt caught up in if you want to - so many in fact that you can forget that you're not models putting together a look book when you get your engagement pics, and you're not auditioning for Martha Stewart replacements with your invitations and dinner setting themes. It's a party. That's all a wedding is- a party with a side of ceremony- and while it should be fun and memorable and you should feel the gravity of the nuptials most of it is just a party -the wedding isn't the big deal- at least it shouldn't be- it's the marriage.

no one has asked about how we're planning that-including us until recently...

but its been boiling in the backs of our minds and we've started some of the discussions,
do we want kids?
how should we plan for retirement?
where do we want to live in 5, 10, 15, 30 years?
what are our life goals?
how do we fit into each others goals?

check out this blog to see what I've been thinking a lot about lately...

Sunday, December 06, 2009

“Sideways”

You know it ain’t easy
For these thoughts here to leave me
There’s no words to describe it
In French or in English
Well, diamonds they fade
And flowers they bloom
And I’m telling you
These feelings won’t go away
They’ve been knockin’ me sideways
They’ve been knockin’ me out lately
Whenever you come around me
These feelings won’t go away
They’ve been knockin’ me sideways
I keep thinking in a moment that
Time will take them away
But these feelings won’t go away

Sunday, November 22, 2009

We're engaged!!!

We're engaged!!!
Aaron proposed this morning after a gorgeous walk through prospect park.
It was perfect. The details are private, but man, I love this guy!


Anyway- now we get to plan a small ceremony to celebrate that we plan to spend the rest of our lives together! I'm excited about this process, and the party at the end of it -a wedding- but really, I'm thrilled that we are building our lives together and I'm so excited for it! All day long I've been looking at him and thinking- wow- this is it- this is my partner. This is the man I get to be with, grow with, learn with, and love, for the rest of my life, and who wants to do that as much as I do.
I think I've been in a pleasant giddy shock most of the day.

okay- now for some huge pictures of my hand...



Isn't my ring beautiful!?!?!? I was lucky enough to get exactly what I wanted. (Thats one of the perks of being with your partner for 8 years already) I wanted a band because I really wanted something low profile, no prongs, and didn't want a huge rock hanging off my finger ( I'm a klutz and I knew I'd cause damage to it or someone else with it if it were). But unfortunately most bands have ugly settings- in fact alot of them look more like braces than settings :) so I really wanted something that would showcase the diamonds from the side as well as the top. When we found this ring I knew it was the one I wanted. It's a 5 stone, two tone, bar set ring, and you can see the entire diamond from the side! I don't know if you can tell from the pictures, but this ring has so much color! The diamonds have been throwing rainbows all day!



Now we're off to a fancy dinner to celebrate!

Friday, November 13, 2009

yet another blog about home decor i like...

I love browsing through Apartment therapy to find new inspirations. If you haven't noticed thta you haven't been reading this blog. check out this slideshow of a house I just adore. I love the plethora of art- something Aaron and I want a lot more of in our home...

Friday, November 06, 2009

Asymmetrical Shadow Scroll Necklace

Interesting Particulars — Asymmetrical Shadow Scroll Necklace

oh- love this- now how to recreate it......?

Thursday, November 05, 2009

Idea for a party...

Apartment therapy suggested it and I think I'll do it...

It can be easy to fret over work that goes into entertaining guests in your home, but why worry, when you can simply throw a 1-2-3-4-5 party. Your guests bring food, fun and hours of entertainment — all you have to do is clean!
There can be so much fuss and muss that goes into having a group of people over to your home, that it can not only be taxing mentally, but financially as well. Even though feeding a large group of people doesn't have to be expensive, it does help out if you ask guests to come prepared to help out!
As the invite above shows, you ask your friends to come armed with a simple 1-2-3-4-5 combination of things. They don't all have to be large bulky things, most should be able to fit in a simple bag, making it easy for those who rely on mass transit to get them to the party and back again!
• 1 Dish To Share: You can prepare a main dish and include it on the invite so people have an idea what might compliment it nicely, or leave it all totally random.
• 2 Games To Play: They could be board games, word games, or card games, but a little variety will help keep people entertained and give those who might not have much in common with one another, a middle ground and something to focus on while conversation.
• 3 Stories To Tell: You can set a theme, such as worst Holiday or College memory, or even your first kiss or car. Or maybe, just a story that your guests wish to share. For bonus points, record your patrons and make holiday gifts of the time you shared.
• 4 Photos Taken Before _????_: Photos from our youth are always a great way to bring a group together quickly. If everyone knows each other, great, if not, play a game of "guess who this is" to get people accquainted.
• 5 Songs To Hear: Have guests bring 5 songs each and make a quick playlist for the night, send everyone home with a mix tape of the nights events. It can be a great keepsake and ensures everyone hears something they like that night.

All in all numbered or structured parties have great benefits. Everyone pitches in and no one shares a full burden of having to spend hours preparing food or entertainment.

Wednesday, November 04, 2009

High & DIY: Upholstered Folding Chairs Make Them Before Thanksgiving!

Apartment Therapy Chicago High & DIY: Upholstered Folding Chairs Make Them Before Thanksgiving!

Party Foul Forgiveness: No-Sweat Stain Removal

Apartment Therapy San Francisco Party Foul Forgiveness: No-Sweat Stain Removal

Apartment Therapy The Kitchn | DIY Countertop Cutting Board Extension Flickr Find

Apartment Therapy The Kitchn DIY Countertop Cutting Board Extension Flickr Find

Thursday, October 29, 2009

House Tour: Kitchen / Dining Room




Here is our bright yellow kitchen / dining room. In reality it's not as glaring yellow as it comes across in the pictures. It's very compact, but is still very user friendly because its so well organized. That's the key. We have floor to ceiling storage. Everything has a place and everything is put back in its place- if only because there is no where else to put it! We have so much room in our cupboards and drawers and right now they are only half way full.
The previous owners added in some really great green aspects in our house, like the low flow toilet in the bathroom. The Kitchen floor is Marmoleum, a natural linoleum alternative. Unlike typical vinyl floors, Marmoleum has no foul odors that off-gas into your environment. It is Asthma & Allergy Friendly certified safe. And it's SMART™ certified as a sustainable product.
We love our checkerboard floor, and have received alot of complements on it.
When we first looked at the place getting a new stove and a new fridge was #1 on the "what we need to change" list. I still want a new fridge because we in essence only have enough freezer room for some ice cubes and a package of meat. really- is about 5"x10".
We've definitely had to relearn how to store our food, and that's been wonderful as we've simply integrated more fresh produce into our diet. We've also stopped eating as much meat which has been great. It's a change we've been trying to do for months, and now that our kitchen kind of forces the issue, its even easier. Yes, we could go buy fresh meat every night, but why? Meatless mondays, wednesdays and fridays are becoming a staple in our diet. We're also integrating more variety into our diet, not just more produce, but falafel, lentils, quinoa, etc. Tonight I'm making lentil burgers.
So maybe we'll get a new fridge, but we're not in the rush we were...
And the new stove? Something larger than the 20" stove we have now? (seriously, 20" look at it!) I don't think we need one anymore. Our smaller stove is really nice. Things cook faster in the oven because you're not wasting the time and heat heating up space you're not cooking in. I was afraid my pans etc wouldn't fit, but everything works fine. Also notice the ikea shelves and rods above the stove- everything you need to cook is right there, and we have a built in spice rack over the large kitchen sink.
In the dining room, we have two pieces of furniture that are really special to us- first the china cabinet- its gorgeous, provides lots of storage, and only cost 25$ at the thrift store! Have you noticed I heart thrift on this blog? But our favorite piece is the refinished ikea butcher block cart. We also bought that at the same thrift store, also for 25$, and it was pretty cut up on the top. Aaron spent a day sanding it down and refinishing it to the same color as the china hutch and it looks amazing!

Sick...


Ugghhh... I've been sick since Saturday. no one should be sick for that long. Now Aaron's sick too. not fun. I've lost my voice, have a ridiculously sore throat, have fever and chills, headaches, runny nose- you name it we've got it. oh well, on the bright side I've spent a lot of time with Aaron the last few days so that's been great :)
When I feel better I'm going to want to do cartwheels down the street...

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

House Tour: Foyer

Before and After

Before and After



We're lucky to have no real hallways in our new space. In NYC halways are just wasted space. Instead we have a foyer- a room that connects all of the rooms and yet is large enough to consider a room on its own. We wanted to repaint it from the nasty green color (see before pic) to one that would compliment the various colors inthe other rooms. We finally settled on a light lilac thats alomost grey. It plays well with the yellow kitchen/dining room, the very light grey reading room, the light grey bedroom, and the black and white bathroom. we also were playful in our rug choice(s) and went with 8 round raspberry colored rugs that the cat just loves redistributing for us. but it adds to a spontaneous polka dot pattern so it works for us. We've also hung several framed pictures from our travels around this world, thanks to a gift card from Anushka and Rasesh that was promplty put to use for phot frames. Thanks guys!

Saturday, October 24, 2009

House Tour: Reading Room




The reading room is still a work in progress. We have so many blank walls that we're actually thinking of asking a friend of ours to create a huge painting for us so we can make the space even more interesting and balance the western wall which is floor to ceiling book shelves. the book shelves add so much color as we removed the shelves and painted the wall behind them a rich turquoise green which contrasts nicely with the white shelves and plays up the rainbow of colors of all of our books. We left two shelves out and there we plan on hanging a flat screen when we decide we need one- so far, we're pleased with filling it some orchids. we painted the window frames the same turquoise green. The wooden Venetian blinds match the hardwood floor as well as the coffee table and end table. All of the colors- the green, navy, and white, are tied in nicely by the Indian print on the throw pillows.
Because we have to cover 80% of our floors with rugs, we also have 2 8x10 navy rugs from ikea- only 40$ bucks each can you believe that?!? I heart ikea.
the room is basically split in half. One one side we have the sofa bed and the chaise lounge. It's very comfy for curling up with your favorite book for a few hours. And Aaron has a large workspace on the other side of the room.

House Tour: Bathroom



So here is our lovely bathroom.
Here's my top ten things that make it my favorite room in the house.
1. The extra long original bathtub. It's huge-long and wide- and its shower head and faucet are in the center of the wall, not on one of the sides, so you can comfortably shower two people without one hogging all the water :) the shower head is awesome too- it does rain, spray and pulsating massage- Awesome!!! and it has a very unique stopper- see the silver pipe looking thing between the black sink cabinet and the tub? That's the stopper! turn the knob to open and close the drain. 2. The antique mirror/ medicine cabinet with glass shelves. It's complimented nicely with the ikea expandable magnification mirror. There are flowers and leaves etched into the glass at the top.
3. The low flow toilet- very eco friendly! and there's a slim built in shelf behind it- perfect for holding some fresh cut flowers.
4. Two original built in towel racks and two ikea shelves (ikea intended them for the kitchen but they work wonderfully holding our towels! you'll notice that the top shelf is replicated twice more over our stove to store our pots and pans...)
5. The long and deep sink. Now, I hated this sink when we first bought the place, but you'll notice that it looks so much better now that I've ripped off the glued on sea shells that were painted black and then spray painted the black seahorse knobs silver. Sleek and modern, not so gaudy now. Such a difference! while i hated the deep shell shaped sink at first too, I have to admit that washing your face over a sink that's almost a foot wide and long is awesome. I no longer get the whole counter wet! love it! and under the sink has sooo much storage! I also love how the handles match the seahorses on the shower curtian perfectly.

6. The white and black subway tile with black grout floor. we got soo many compliments on this floor when we had our housewarming party. the black grout makes such a difference!
7. The floor to ceiling bathroom cabinet- it has a little door that you lift up to laundry shoot dirty clothes into the hamper. the top door reveals 3 huge shelves that finally store all of my beauty gadgets away nicely.
8. The bathroom has its own heat vent so no more stumbling into a freezing bathroom in the middle of the night!
9. The huge window lets in soo much light you don't need florescents. one bulb is plenty of light.
10. The framed prints of 5 orchid drawings from the Smithsonian. Aaron framed this for me. I love it. It makes me smile every time I go in there. I'm such a nut for orchids now! Thanks Aaron!

Easy DIY: An attractive air freshener.

Easy DIY!


So I love airfresheners, really who doesn't, but I hate the ugly packaging they come in. I always end up trying to hide them behind something and then I miss out on their full effect. I figured out a very attractive way to freshen the air in my bathroom and I have to share.

Get a pretty old sugar or salt shaker- mine is glass with a silver lid. the pattern on the glas matches the light fixture and the small bowl I have for placeing jewlry in before you wash up or shower.

Then buy one of those gel air fresheners- I like those renuzit cones. You simply take off the top of the cone and carve out the air freshener- its like jello- and scoop it into the sugar shaker! screw back on th elid and voila! An attractive air freshener.
























Wednesday, October 21, 2009

aww spray paint... How I love thee...



Apartment Therapy and Design Sponge have both touted the awesome transformational power of spray paint. I think I was ahead of the curve - they just use white- I've been using silver and black for a while now with some awesome results! :)
You can choose your favorite accent color (I'm gearing up for some turquoise) and get things matchy matchy quite quickly. I've painted vases, frames, furniture, numerous shoe boxes, notebooks, wicker boxes, and even an old magazine holder to make it over to hold some of my yarn stash next to the recliner.
Seeing the same color replicated throughout a room builds cohesiveness of design, and spraypaint is one of the fastest and most inexpensive ways to do that.
Wanna see how the "pro's" did it?
Click here and here for a few projects from Apartment Therapy.

Click here for a great DIY project on Design Sponge.

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Recent Books Report

My world has been quite self absorbed lately and I've loved it. After our fabulous housewarming party I felt a bit under the weather- I never got sick, I was just run down.
So what have I been doing in my spare time? Reading mostly...
In an attempt to learn more about the genre of science fiction I'm reading several of the classics. I read the The Three Stigmata of Palmer Eldritch by writer Philip K. Dick. I was sadly disappointed. It was my first Dick novel (minds out of the gutter ladies) and I had such great expectations for it. Boy was I let down. I really thought he squandered some really interesting ideas by such a shallow investigation of them. I mean c'mon! Alien drugs? precogs? Martian colonization? This should have been a great book! But instead of investigating the first contact with other life forms ( in this books universe that is), or the severe complexities of being able to trip together with someone else and its implicatons on individuality, or even the science that could be behind any of this, he filled it with badly formed gender stereotypes, and business plans. WTF?!?!? And the sexism! sheesh. It was enough to put the book down on that alone. I don't buy the tired "well the time it was written was different" excuse either. It wasn't. It was written in 1965. We were well into the 2nd wave of Feminism and he just enjoyed writing that way. I'm no prude, but I do find it offensive when the only reason a female character is introduced is to sexualize a scene, make fun of them, then ignore them. It got really old. I didn't realize Dick was such a, well... dick. That aside, I was so utterly disappointed by how he concluded the novel that I had to force myself to read the last 10 pages. When he couldn't think of an interesting ending suddenly he introduces all of this religious ( and shabbily applied might I add) symbolism in a pathetic attempt to impart meaning to his several hundred page retelling of a bad acid trip. uuhhggg. I don't think I'll be reading another one of his books.
Today I've started Virginia Wolfs A Room of One's Own. Reading the editors intro I've already cringed. Yes, I agree that women must have space to think- they must have the luxury to create, but I don't like the quote "Genius like Shakespeare's is not born among the labouring, uneducated, servile people". Her argument is that without money ( not earned, but inherited) and space to develop and create one can never attain genius.
I think she walked into that river too soon.
It may not be the luxury to write that allows genius, it may be the luxury to print- to be published.
The 21st century is filled with remarkable authors- the best of whom were "among the labouring, uneducated, servile people." I argue that genius needs a muse, a purpose, a need. Perhaps there were so so few published female authors at that- prior to her time not only because of the domestic responsibilities, but also those who had access to publishing were to busy wallowing in their luxury to actually write. I'm still going to read A Room of One's Own, but I can tell I'm going to have a strong opinion on her bourgeoisie notions of who deserve to have the development of their genius supported...
uggh. I need a good book.
I just ordered Dhalgren is a science fiction novel by Samuel R. Delany. . Wish me luck!

Friday, October 16, 2009

DIY Facial Scrubs for Any Skin Type

I love DIY home spa treatments. They're practical, use earth friendly ingredients, and are just about as much fun as you can have in a bathroom!

Want to treat yourself to a little handmade spa action? Check out these facial scrub recipes found here for dry, normal, and oily skin!
The best way to apply your scrub is to gently massage it on with a damp washcloth, and make sure you rinse your face thoroughly when you’re done. Also, don’t miss the easy toner recipe at the very bottom! And a word of caution about these scrubs: you don’t want to exfoliate every day. Once or twice a week is just perfect for maintaining healthy, glowing skin! More than that can cause oiliness, dryness or breakouts as your skin compensates for the “lost” moisture. You’ll want to mix up very small batches- enough for just one or two uses - since these recipes are food-based and won’t keep for too long on the shelf.
Dry Skin

To help ease dry skin, you’ll want to gently exfoliate while also moisturizing. Try Annie’s sugar scrub recipe or ehow’s olive oil and avocado moisturizer. If your skin is exceptionally dry, follow this up with a little bit of olive oil to moisturize even more. You might also try drinking more water to treat your skin right from the inside out!
Normal Skin

To gently moisturize and exfoliate normal skin, try mixing a bit of sugar and baking soda with enough sesame oil to form a paste. If this feels a bit too oily for your skin, you can also try half oil and half honey in the mix.
Oily Skin

We knew oatmeal was good for your insides… who knew it was great for your face? You can make a simple oatmeal scrub by combining equal parts ground oatmeal and deeply steeped, cooled chamomile tea. Add a little bit of honey and a drop of tea tree oil, and you’re ready to scrub. This recipe also works with spent coffee grounds in place of the oatmeal. Invigorating!
No matter what your skin type, you might enjoy following this up with a soothing green tea toner. Just steep the tea for about ten minutes and let it cool. Put it in a spray bottle and spritz on or apply with a clean cloth.

Here are some additional recipes from India as found here...


Baking Soda Facial Scrub
Apply baking soda on wet face using circular motions and you'll be amazed how soft your skin is going to be afterwards!

Strawberry Facial Scrub
Make a mixture of 1 tsp brown sugar and 2 mashed strawberries. Brown sugar will remove dead cells and strawberries are going to make your skin baby-soft.

Sea-salt and Olive Oil Facial Scrub
1 tsp olive oil ( cold pressed ) and 1/2 tsp sea salt applied gently to a wet face will not only remove dead cells, but it will also improve micro-circulation. Olive oil is going to nourish the skin, leaving it incredibly soft.

Cucumber Facial Scrub
Blend 1 tsp honey with ¼ medium peeled cucumber. Mix the ingredients in a blender until smooth and add a small amount of water if needed. Strain the mixture and remove the vegetable and honey mixture into a small bowl. Add the following mixed meals to the liquid: 1 teaspoon almond meal, 1 teaspoon ground oatmeal, 1 teaspoon sunflower seed meal, 1 teaspoon wheat germ.

Honey Cleansing Scrub
Mix 1 tablespoon honey with 1/2 teaspoon lemon juice and 2 tsp ground almonds.Rub gently onto face. Rinse off with warm water.

Walnut Powder Softening Scrub
Make a mixture of 1 tsp walnut powder,1/2 tsp honey, 1 tsp lemon juice and scrub your face with it. Rinse well.

Papaya Facial Scrub
Mash a piece of papaya, then add 1/2 tsp brown sugar and rub your face with it. Leave it on for 20 minutes and rinse well. Your skin will be fresh and glowing . Feel the difference!

Orange Facial Scrub
Mix 3 tsp orange juice with 3 tsp turmeric powder, apply to face and neck. Leave on 20 minutes and rinse off with warm water.

Oatmeal Scrub
Put 3 tbsp of oatmeal into a muslin bag (or cheesecloth ). Dampen the oatmeal bag in warm water and rub over your face for 2 minutes. Then take a little of wet oatmeal and apply it directly to your face. Leave it on for 5 minutes. Wash off with warm water and enjoy smooth, radiant skin!

Friday, September 25, 2009

How to create inexpensive Coasters

We've set the date for our housewarming party and invited 50 people! We never throw large parties so this will be a really fun endeavor. We've been stocking up on wine glasses and mixers, and I've been collecting a list of easy but elegant appetizers. I'm so excited!

I realized though, that our coaster collection (6 ugly ikea coasters) is highly inadequate. I want to make some new ones that look great and do the job. Aaron and I use coasters all the time so it'll be of use for a while to come.


I found this tutorial here that is copied below. It looks easy and inexpensive. I'll try my luck with them this weekend, and let you know how it goes...





How to create inexpensive coasters


Create simple and inexpensive coasters to compliment your decor. Alter the design to create photo coasters!


Things You'll Need:

  1. Sharp scissors (fabric scissors are good, but you'll wreak havoc on them, so don't use spendy ones)
  2. Several sheets of foam (99c from craft store. I buy the huge ones, and need 2)
  3. Several pieces of pretty scrapping paper (I normally get 4 coordinating prints)
  4. Double Sided Adhesive (the kind I bought came in like 5x7 sheets, so I could do 2 coasters - albeit one creatively, lol - per sheet.)
  5. Laminating Paper (comes in a big roll, it's the peel and stick kind. be sure it's archival quality)
  6. Pen or pencil
  7. Something round that is the size you want your coasters to be (I got out a piece of tupper ware that was smaller, and used the top rim of it)


Steps
  1. Take your bowl and put it on your foam. See how you are going to fit the circles onto that. With the big sheets, I did 2 rows of 3, so 6 per sheet. If that's the case, cut in half longwise, then measure out using your bowl into 3rds, cutting as you go. You should have 6 (per sheet) foam squares. Set aside.
  2. Now you want to do the same with your scrapping paper. Cut squares that are a hair bigger than the bowl. You can use either your bowl as a template or your now-cut foam squares.Now we will cut the adhesive and laminate the same way.
  3. To assemble a coaster you will need (from top to bottom) 1 piece of laminate, 1 piece of paper, 1 piece of adhesive, 1 piece of foam.check both sides of your foam for flaws. If there is a flawed side, place it flawed side up on the table. If not, doesn't matter which side goes up.Peel off one side of the adhesives backing paper. Stick to foam square.Place paper face up, stick laminate paper onto to of paper. Be sure to press evenly to avoid bubbles on BOTH steps.You should now have 2 pieces. foam/adhesive and paper/laminate.
  4. Now stick your paper/laminate onto the foam adhesive after peeling off the 2nd backing. Be sure to press it down evenly to avoid bubbles.
  5. Flip coaster face down, take bowl and place on foam side of coaster. Using pen or pencil, lightly trace your circle shape.
  6. Using sharp scissors, cut out circle. Be sure to use long, smooth cut lines. Many short choppy lines will result in a messy looking circle.


ENJOY!

Thursday, September 24, 2009

Apartment Therapy New York | Jennifer's DIY Workspace & Home Office Before & After

Apartment Therapy New York | Jennifer's DIY Workspace & Home Office Before & After
oh! check this out for a great lil craft room! I love it!

: DC-Design House 2009 : Apartment Therapy

: DC-Design House 2009 : Apartment Therapy


WOW! I LOVE this chandelier!!!
wheels turning on how I can recreate this....

Friday, September 18, 2009

white shelves...

I have two ghost shelves that I now think i'm going to paint white and hang in the reading room... this pic reminded me to add that to my list of odds and ends to finish up...

knit


knit, originally uploaded by Spring Globe.

Art work by Christien Meindertsma, Animaux.nl

my brain is just buzzing with ideas of things to knit and hang...

Wednesday, September 16, 2009


I finally got my Gowear Fit in the mail ( still waiting for the display) and I love it!

I wore it for the first time yesterday and was surprised how many calories I burn just walking around! I was also surprised how much I walk! I was set with a goal of 5000 steps and I exceed that by walking over 13000! I was also surprised to see how many calories I burned! 2760, but my goal was 2800 so today I'm going to step that up and see just how many I can burn today. This little thing strapped around my arm is super motivating! I can't wait until I get the display device and can get minute to minute totals and feedback! The thing that really shocked me though, was my sleep efficiency.
The Gowear fit does that and I guess the body bug doesn't, and I didn't think it was something I'd be interested in but after last night I definitely am!
I had what I thought was a good night sleep. I only remember waking up once and when I woke up I felt like I had gotten a good nights sleep. boy was I wrong! I was laying down for 6hr 37 min, but I was actually only asleep for 3 hours and 42 min! I was shocked. You can see all of the times I woke up! and I don't remember them so I'm sure it was that kind of waking up where you're still half asleep, but it still interferes with the quality of your rest. That's something I've never thought about before and now I'm very curious to see how I can improve that.
I'm soo happy with this little device so far, and its not as annoying to wear as I thought it would be. I barely notice it. the only time I really notice it is when I'm changing clothes.
Today I have two dentist appointments, so I was thinking that maybe in between appointments I'd go for a walk around central park. It'll be fun to see how many calories that burns ;' )

Monday, September 14, 2009

20 Ways To Love Your Home


Apartment Therapy Los Angeles 20 Ways To Love Your Home
20 Ways To Love Your Home


While the weather turns a bit colder (only 72 today!) our thoughts turn to the Fall. We're looking forward to more time spent indoors hosting and hanging out. But there are some things we'd like to get to to make our home feel that much more comfortable. Here are 20 ways to love your home (so it loves you back):
1. Choose 10 things and donate them, throw them away or repurpose them. It's easy for stuff to pile up but if you grab a bag and walk through the house it's almost guranteed that you'll be able to find 10 things that you either don't love, don't use, or is broken (and not worth fixing). Get these things out.
2. Rearrange. You choose big or small. Rearrange the living room or rearrange the bottles you have out on the counter in the bathroom. When we rearrange our homes they look new and fresh.
3. Take some advice from Benita. She rotates her accessories so that she can change the palette of each room. She cleverly stores the accessories she's not using and is able to refresh her home without buying anything.
4. Add some yellow. Yellow is bright, fun and full of cheer. It's modern and there are a lot of ways to incporporate it into your home.
5. Add a plant or flowers. Fresh flowers might be too expensive an indulgence to do all the time, but a nice little mint plant growing in the kitchen or some beautiful succulents out on the porch can breath some life into your abode. Check out some foolproof house plants.
6. Clean. Choose a room and really clean it: mop the floors, dust the shelves, the doorjambs and everyhing in between. See how different you feel afterwards.
7. Light it up. Do you have three points of light in the living room or just a torch lamp in the corner. Rooms feel bigger, more grown up and have better ambience if you use at least 3 light sources in a room.
8. Eat Meals at home. We've talked about it often, but eating meals at home instantly makes home feel like a place you want to be (in fact, sometimes for us it's just knowing the fridge is full of food).
9. Privacy. Do your curtains give you privacy at night? Could they do a better job? You want to feel comfortable at home and having privacy is a big part of that. On our list is replacing the vertical blinds that came with the rental with some nice sheers (we're on the 3rd floor so don't need to worry about peeping toms).
10.Zone your space. Now is a good time to reevaluate how you're using your space. Do you often have people over to watch movies and yet your desk takes up half the living room? Or the opposite: do you rarely have people over and you work from home and your desk is shoved into a tight little corner? Make sure your home is supporting the activities you do inside of it.
11.Good Rest. Is it time to change the sheets or clean off the nightstands? The bedroom is uber important for helping us get good rest so we feel good in our lives. Do you have ratty old sheets or just a color you can't stand? Start saving up for some sheets that are amazing. If we ever get our gumption up, we're buying linen sheets.
12. Frequent a local thrift store. You never know what you'll find and when you find something you love, it's normally pretty affordable. We stop at the Salvation Army once a week and look for paintings, pottery, lamps and small accessories. We've started to build a collection and when we make a mistake, we just donate it right back.
13. Put that collection on display. Do you love cakestands? Have a closet full of vintage scarves? break your collection out and put it on display. A friend of ours tied vintage scarved to her headboard, we use cakestands for plants and catch alls by the door.
14. Add Art. If you've been afraid to hang art, now's the time. A space becomes a home when there is stuff on the walls. We love pairing family photos with vintage postcards and funny paintings. You can also rearrange your artwork to create a new feeling in the house.
15. Get a good book. Let yourself read in bed (in your cleaned out bedroom). This helps slow down your day and let's you drift off into sleep. Quality of life skyrockets.
16. Scents. Is the only smell in the apartment the smell of the litter box or the dishes that haven't been done yet? Use nice smelling cleaners like Methos Lavender all purpose spray and burn candles or diffuser sticks in smells that you like (and that aren't overpowering). Ever tried a linen spray on your sheets? It's nice, trust us. Pay attention to what you smell when you walk in the door. Is it stuffy? Do you need a fan? Does the garbage need to be taken out every morning instead of once a week?
17. Indulge. Is there a bathsoap you really like? Flowers you really like? Love having fresh rasberries in the fridge? Choose something you love having around and, if you can afford it, splurge. If you can't afford it, find something you can afford to splurge on and get it.
18. Invite people over. Sometimes just looking at our home with the perspective of what others see when they come in helps us to edit, rearrange or finally get to the project that's laid out in the living room. And when people come over, you better believe we've spent some time cleaning, and that's never a bad thing.
19. Slow Down. We've had moments when we're so busy we've barely even been at home, let alone enjoyed it. So when we can we try to make a point of slowing down and just being at home. Drinking our coffee while sitting on the couch instead of multitasking. Taking the time to take a bath instead of checking our email again. Spending time with the family when everyone is home instead of just putting a video on.
20. Make Decisions. 90% of clutter is the result of delayed decisions. You can't decide about that old sweater so you keep it. You don't know if it's worth it to keep that broken chair because some day you might be able to fix it, etc. Make some decisions, move forward in your home and get the energy moving in there again. When we get our home in order, it empowers us in every other part of our lives.

How do you love your home?

Thursday, September 10, 2009

I'm on Foodgawker- well kinda- not really...

Wow-
I was browsing through foodgawker (a favorite site) when I spotted a drink called the "The Parkway Punch", a Caribbean punch created in honor of Brooklyn's Eastern Parkway and the annual West Indian Parade. I had to see what was in it given the three days of hootin and hollering that I witnessed. I knew it had to be quite the punch and it is- , and on the blog I found a picture of ...
you'll never guess who...
ME!
check me out:
http://umamimart.blogspot.com/2009/09/happy-hour-parkway-punch.html
see the pic with the redhead in the black shirt? That's me! Well, the back of my head at least. This is me waiting 45 minutes to cross the street to go to Cecilia's farewell party.
This totally cracks me up!

Quick & Easy Strawberry Jam | Cooking On the Side

Quick & Easy Strawberry Jam Cooking On the Side
mmmmm... freezer strawberry jam Yum!!! now if only I had a freezer large enough to actually make this!!!

Tuesday, September 08, 2009

How I spent my labor day vacation....

We passed our labor day weekend by making several small bike trips- up to Zaytoons (our favorite middle eastern restaurant), to Unnameable books to pick up yet more books (its not like our living room floor is several feet thick in books right now because we haven't received the brackets to fix our book shelves with... oh wait... actually that's exactly how it is...), and to Cecilia's farewell party yesterday. Cecilia is moving to England to pursue her grad degree in museum studies and we're going to miss her. I was just really getting to know her and I regret not getting to know her more over the last few years. Shes one of those people who's willing to invest the time and consideration needed to really be a friend to someone. Through getting to know her more I realize I'm really only friends with a handful of people and just friendly to the rest.
Thinking about it makes me want to be a better friend.
I really hope we get the cash together to go visit her in England...
We also spent Sunday with Matt and Rachel. I always have fun with Rachel. She's another friend who is willing to take the consideration and concern to be a really good friend. Now we only live 5 blocks apart! I'm really looking forward to having her around more often, and having a buddy to work out in the park with...
Our neighborhood celebrated the weekend with the Caribbean day festival. I'm not a fan of parades so the fact that they have two in two days, one of which is at 3 am, doesn't excite me. Nor does the drunken yelling, series of police sirens ambulance sirens, random honking and stupidly congested traffic that accompanies such events. You'd think there were riots going on instead of celebration! I had to sleep with ear plugs all weekend. Oh well. Not everyone believes that its rude to yell at random people passing by. It's NYC. I should be used to it by now, but I'm not.
And finally the remainder of the weekend was filled with finally unpacking my clothes and shoes and organizing closets around the house. I now have a closet where the clothes are organized by color and the shoes by heel height. If you know me at all you understand that that is hilarious and bound to last about a week! Oh well. The attempts at organization are entertaining at least!
People have been asking for pics of the new place, and we promise pics of the house are on their way, but there are just so many little things to do before we're ready to document and share it all!

Friday, September 04, 2009

foiled again!



So while my lovely pink orchid was recovering from the bacteria infection that caused me to amputate part of her leaf, (she's doing lovely by the way, the cinnamon worked nicely and she's getting another bloom ready) I was beginning my own battle with bacteria!
In my tooth of all places!
Saturday while snacking on milk chocolate chips ( yes I know they aren't diet friendly, but they are taste bud friendly and that was what I needed right then), I got this sudden throbbing pain in my tooth! By Tuesday I was in a dentist chair for a root canal! They aren't sure how, because the tooth wasn't damaged, but I had a bacteria infection in my tooth!
I informed the dentist I would need extra anesthesia, and cited the studies I mentioned on this blog not more than a few weeks back, on account of my red hair. 45 min later I was done with the root canal, and it wasn't nearly so traumatic as I had feared, but considering I really was expecting to die from pain, the fact that i walked out of the office with all limbs attached was something to smile about, except I couldn't. I tried to put some chap stick on and later realized I'd coated a good inch under my lips because I was so numb I couldn't tell what I was doing. Good thing it was chap stick and not lipstick eh? Aaron was a sweetheart and picked me up from the dentist ( a real act of love considering how long it takes to get anywhere in NYC).
The rest of the week has been filled with mushy foods and pain meds. If I never eat mac and cheese and jello again I will be plenty happy.
I hope everyone out there enjoys thier labor day weekend! have some chips and salad for me,
and then go brush your teeth!